Cognition
Having a conversation with someone who has dementia can be challenging, stressful, and frustrating for both of you. But there are ways you can make it easier. Start by eliminating any distracting sounds, like turning off the TV or radio before speaking to reduce the noise level. Put yourself at the Veteran’s eye level. Make eye contact. Call them by their name. Additional strategies include: 

Having a conversation with someone who has dementia can be challenging, stressful, and frustrating for both of you. But there are ways you can make it easier. Start by eliminating any distracting sounds, like turning off the TV or radio before speaking to reduce the noise level. Put yourself at the Veteran’s eye level. Make eye contact. Call them by their name. Additional strategies include: 

While you are communicating with your loved one, try to: 

It is normal to get frustrated. If you are not making progress, take a break. Try again later when the Veteran is in a good state to communicate. For example, they may be easier to talk with in the morning, or after a meal or rest.

Be calm, patient, and positive
While you are communicating with your loved one, try to: 

Be respectful
Say please and thank you.

Try again later
It is normal to get frustrated. If you are not making progress, take a break. Try again later when the Veteran is in a good state to communicate. For example, they may be easier to talk with in the morning, or after a meal or rest.